In life, we meet many people. we come across new faces each day. some stay as friends, some just pass by, some stay forever and the most special kind of people are those who touch our lives and imprint themselves in our souls forever. the school of life teaches new lessons everyday. and the people are the tutors. through their actions and behaviors they teach many things. but the most important thing is our ability to learn and see things. two people may learn very different things when put in the same circumstance.unlike the schools we went to, in life we learn what we observe. the skill of mugging up doesn't come handy here.
what we become in life is the result of what we absorb. every person, whether its our well wisher or our friend or our parents or it might as simple as the beggar we see teach us something. the people who hurt us also teach us important lesson, perhaps the most important lessons are taught by them. they serve as 'blessing in disguise'.
in this post i would like to share my views on "making a bond". when we meet someone, the first thing we notice about them is their looks. many a times we predict people's personality on their looks without even knowing them. some people guess it right, some [like me] are poor judge of face. here i would like to tell you about the various kinds of people.
first are those who have a charming face and an aura that invariably attracts others and we try to create a bond with them. then comes the kind of people who have a very monotonous look on their faces as if they are not interested in what is going around them, most of the times we reply by an equally dull look. another kind of people are the ones who have a grave look on their faces which clearly says "i am out of your league". this sort of look is mostly found in overconfident people. attitude is their thing. some who think equally prepare for an attitude clash, some simply avoid them and some show indifference. a further kind of people are those who look cunning and you can clearly distinguish a "devilish smile"[you can see they will always be up to some mischief] on their face [most girls fall for such guys and vice versa ].one more kind are those who have a frown expression on their face as if nothing is up to their like[read standard]. they are the "sad stories" as no matter how much you do, they will always complain. there are many other types of people but these are the types that come to my mind now. i wont be surprised if you were connecting each type i mentioned with a face you know.
unfortunately nobody gets all the good cards in life. we have to deal with each kind of people whether we like it or not. those who are friendly are the easiest to get along with. the others are just dealt because we have to or because we need them[might not be personally]. making friends is a positive thing in life. if we are lucky, we get friends who will do anything for us[i am lucky in this case]. our friends love us as we are and remain with us through thick and thin. some people become more than friends. they touch our life in a different way and become special for us. they remain forever, no matter what we do, they stay in our hearts. its not necessary that the said person should be a lover. he/she can be a friend, sibling, one-sided lover, ex-husband/wife, anyone...
if you still think that you are alone then there are two possibilities; either you are too weak a person who cannot create a bond with others[ i would suggest you start making friends] or you are blind enough that you cant see the bonds around you[ you need to have a closer look then].
the mandatory requirement for making a bond is to trust. i wont say that your trust will always stay intact, no, it will be broken numerous times, but once you find a person who will never break your trust, the quest becomes worth it.
cheers
what we become in life is the result of what we absorb. every person, whether its our well wisher or our friend or our parents or it might as simple as the beggar we see teach us something. the people who hurt us also teach us important lesson, perhaps the most important lessons are taught by them. they serve as 'blessing in disguise'.
in this post i would like to share my views on "making a bond". when we meet someone, the first thing we notice about them is their looks. many a times we predict people's personality on their looks without even knowing them. some people guess it right, some [like me] are poor judge of face. here i would like to tell you about the various kinds of people.
first are those who have a charming face and an aura that invariably attracts others and we try to create a bond with them. then comes the kind of people who have a very monotonous look on their faces as if they are not interested in what is going around them, most of the times we reply by an equally dull look. another kind of people are the ones who have a grave look on their faces which clearly says "i am out of your league". this sort of look is mostly found in overconfident people. attitude is their thing. some who think equally prepare for an attitude clash, some simply avoid them and some show indifference. a further kind of people are those who look cunning and you can clearly distinguish a "devilish smile"[you can see they will always be up to some mischief] on their face [most girls fall for such guys and vice versa ].one more kind are those who have a frown expression on their face as if nothing is up to their like[read standard]. they are the "sad stories" as no matter how much you do, they will always complain. there are many other types of people but these are the types that come to my mind now. i wont be surprised if you were connecting each type i mentioned with a face you know.
unfortunately nobody gets all the good cards in life. we have to deal with each kind of people whether we like it or not. those who are friendly are the easiest to get along with. the others are just dealt because we have to or because we need them[might not be personally]. making friends is a positive thing in life. if we are lucky, we get friends who will do anything for us[i am lucky in this case]. our friends love us as we are and remain with us through thick and thin. some people become more than friends. they touch our life in a different way and become special for us. they remain forever, no matter what we do, they stay in our hearts. its not necessary that the said person should be a lover. he/she can be a friend, sibling, one-sided lover, ex-husband/wife, anyone...
if you still think that you are alone then there are two possibilities; either you are too weak a person who cannot create a bond with others[ i would suggest you start making friends] or you are blind enough that you cant see the bonds around you[ you need to have a closer look then].
the mandatory requirement for making a bond is to trust. i wont say that your trust will always stay intact, no, it will be broken numerous times, but once you find a person who will never break your trust, the quest becomes worth it.
cheers
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